Alhamdulilah. This weekend was an epic fail for me. The last couple of days I’ve been on edge, to say the least. I’ve been tempted to unleash a wild torrent of emotions upon certain individuals. They shall remain nameless.
Some people can get under your skin if you allow them to. This is where sabr (patience) is a vital tool in helping you keep your cool. Never give a person the power to get you out of your character. More importantly don’t let Shaitan succeed in his mission. If you become irate and act irrationally only you will be held accountable for your actions.
Nevertheless, it is common knowledge that humans aren’t infallible. We all make mistakes, and we all have character flaws, Muslims included. Yes, that’s right, we Muslims are indeed humans. I’ve come across plenty of Muslims that behave so treacherously you could not pay me to believe they were upon the Sunnah, even if it was stamped on their foreheads. I say this to illustrate my point. You cannot judge an entire group of people
according to the actions of a few. If the actions of a few bad apples spoke for us all, Islam wouldn’t be the fastest growing religion in the world to date.
So back to the annoyances I was plagued with this past weekend. I forgive them for their misdeeds. However I’m having difficulty trying to convince myself that I should take naseeha (advice) from such people. I’m only responsible for following the Qur’an and Sunnah to the best of my abilities. I refuse to blind follow any man, especially one who sees absolutely no wrong in himself. Brothers and sisters , let us remember to check ourselves and our families first, before we deal out advice to others.